Are you unsuccessful and feel like a loser? Are you facing financial ruin? Is everything going wrong in your life? Is your professional and personal life in ruins?If you answered these questions with "No, no, no!" then you must be doing something right. Those who are unhappy with themselves and the world complain and cry out for constant change. Those who are happy with what they have achieved and accept the world as it is can also enjoy their lives. I no longer let myself be convinced that I have to constantly change everything and prefer to orient myself towards my habits of success.
Discover Your Change Fucks - and Get Rid of Them
Why don't we focus on what works? Because success is what is happening right now, in the present, in the here and now. Don't throw away what has been proven just because you have used it before. And have the courage to uncover your Change Fucks. Change Fucks - these are attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors that have led to some changes in you, but have not improved anything at all. What are some Change Fucks?
Change Fuck: Changes without Improvements
The change fetishists believe that the willingness to change is the ultimate wisdom. I ask you: would you rather improve something - or change it? Has anything ever really turned for the better through the change? My answer is: "Fuck off, Change!" What matters is not change at all costs, but the solution that leads to improvement. That's why I have deleted the word "change" from my vocabulary. I think and talk about improvements.
Change Fuck: Change is not Sustainable
I no longer change anything in my life when things are going well. What motivates me, however, is to constantly simplify things. Because simplicity leads to sustainability. I see many people who are unhappy - precisely because of constant changes. The change gurus whisper to them: "Change! Be someone else!" But why should I be someone else? The others already exist.
Change Fuck: Others Want the Change
I prefer to work on becoming who I am and improving myself. Every time someone tries to persuade me to change, I tell myself: "I don't have to do a damn thing!" I recoil, consider whether someone is trying to make me do something I don't want to do. But: I decide what and when I want to change something, and whether I want to change anything at all. Imposed changes unleash fears, lead to resistance. Why do most change processes fail? - My conclusion is: "Don't change anything when it's working. Create new things without destroying the old, integrate them. Continue to develop habits of success instead of constantly learning new habits." When will you discover your Change Fucks and throw them overboard?
